Being a "companion" encompasses many responsibilities:
- Sitter –
As a sitter, we provide the client with as much comfort, attention, and respect as possible. The client may be bedridden or terminally ill.
- Reading – We will usually read a book or the Bible to a client.
- Games – We may play cards or board games with them.
- Meal preparation –
We prepare meals for the day and/or week.
- Conversation –
We help stimulate their mind by talking about the weather, going over what day/month/year/season it is, and going through current events and media.
It can be challenging to know when it's time to make professional elderly care services a part of your loved one's life. Pay attention to the state of cleanliness both inside and out of their house. Piled up dishes and overgrown weeds may be related to fatigue, depression, dementia, or something in between. A lack of personal care, such as poor grooming and hygiene, dirty clothing, or rapid weight loss, is a similar signal. Behavioral changes are certainly something to watch out for, though drawing clear conclusions from them can be difficult. They commonly include loss of memory, unexpected and unwarranted bursts of aggression, and signs of depression like isolation and low interest levels. These signs and various others will present themselves throughout the aging process, but the key to making a determination about elderly care services involves carefully tracking their frequency and intensity. Generally, only the most severe issues warrant moving a loved one into a nursing facility, because many symptoms of illness and physical limitations can be overcome through in-home elderly care.
In many situations, a loved one may be resistant to the idea of elderly care. It is very hard to help someone who does not want to help themselves, and you may not feel it is your place to force undesired elderly care services on them. There are steps to take to help your loved one slowly adjust and get warmed up to the idea, however. People tend to not like change, and surely you can relate to the feelings of fear and vulnerability a senior would experience when faced with the reality of an unfamiliar routine involving less privacy and independence. There also may be feelings of guilt involved, such as the guilt of becoming a financial burden depending on the costs of elderly care. Perhaps memory issues are making it difficult for them to properly understand why they even need assistance. Regardless of what is causing the resistance, our elderly care professionals are well-trained to help your whole family transition into this lifestyle. Contact our staff to discuss this process in more detail.